As you walk into my house, my lovely wife Erin has designed a wall of our family photos. Each picture, whether of the whole family or of our son or daughter has been organized into a creative masterpiece. Each picture is framed and each one distinctly spaced and hung in just the right spot. Although it looks wonderful, it took her quite a while to figure out what to frame and where to place it. Framing became an art to her and the placement of the frame the same.

My son Noah is four years old. He is a very smart little boy and easily picks up on the little things that go on around the house. Erin and I have learned that if we don’t “frame” situations at the right time and the right place, he will know. For example, when we have family or friends come stay the night or visit from out of town, typically they get to use his big boy bed in his room (it is probably the most comfortable bed in the house). Giving his bed over to our friends or family frequently, Noah has become fond of the floor. Here is where the framing comes into play. Although Noah LOVES his bed, he loves sleeping on a floor bed; but not just a typical floor bed, he LOVES sleeping on his “camping” bed. You see, we learned a long time ago, that Noah will be more than willing to give up his bed to Grandma and Grandpa or any of his aunts and uncles who come into town if he can sleep on a “camping” bed. We have no clue where the “camping” bed idea came from but it works. Basically the camping bed is a glorified spot on the floor in our office. If we told him he would be sleeping on the floor he wouldn’t understand and wouldn’t be happy. His new “camping” bed includes a comforter as the bottom, a pillow and a blanket and that is all he needs to be happy. He is so happy with it that he even wants to keep sleeping on it once the family and friends leave.

You see, we have learned as parents that it is vital for us to “frame” situations and life’s circumstances for our children whether four years old, nine years old, or sixteen years old. Its not just sleeping on the floor but it’s sleeping on the camping bed! It’s not just doing the dishes; it’s developing the art of cleaning! Have you learned what situations or circumstances would go over better if they were framed? Remember each child is different. Each needs a different “camping” bed! Have fun framing. It’s an art and takes time! Enjoy and be encouraged!

Blessings

Steve Petrauschke

Family Ministries- NE Campus